Black Friday sales are everywhere: emails, ads, and endless scrolling deals promising “once-a-year savings”.
It’s exciting and tempting, but it’s also the time of year when many people overspend, buy things they don’t need, and get caught in traps that drain more than their wallet.
Before you hit “Buy Now”, take a breath and make sure the bargain is real and right for you.
TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE? PROBABLY
Retailers know how to create urgency. Countdown clocks, “limited stock” warnings, and “exclusive for the next 2 hours” offers are designed to make you act fast and think later.
Add to that the growing number of fake websites and scam ads that pop up on social media, and it’s no wonder so many people get caught out.
Always double-check where you’re shopping. Look for the padlock symbol in the browser, use trusted sites, and never click on links from messages or ads that seem suspicious. If a deal looks too good to be true, assume that it is.
THE NEEDS VS WANTS TEST
The easiest way to stay in control this sale season is to use the Needs vs Wants filter. A need is something essential or planned, like replacing a broken fridge, buying school tech for the kids, or picking up long-budgeted-for Christmas gifts.
A want is usually emotional, such as a reward, something shiny, or an impulse purchase that gives a quick hit of satisfaction but fades fast.
Before you buy, pause and ask, “Would I still want this if it wasn’t on sale?” That simple question can save you hundreds.
SALES DON’T ALWAYS SAVE MONEY
A 40 per cent discount still means you’re spending the other 60 per cent.
The biggest trap in sale season is convincing yourself you’re saving money when you’re actually spending more than planned. The smartest way to shop is to set a clear budget before the sale season starts and stick to it.
If you can, transfer your planned spending amount into a separate account so you can see exactly what’s available.
When the account’s empty, you’re done shopping. No guilt, no debt, no surprises later.
BE A SMART SHOPPER
Take a few minutes to research prices before the sales begin. Some stores inflate “before” prices to make discounts look bigger.
Use price comparison sites or tools that track past prices to see if the sale price or discount is genuine.
And remember – quality beats quantity every time. One well-made item that lasts years will always outdo three cheap ones that fall apart by next Christmas.
The real win this Black Friday isn’t what you buy; it’s what you keep. Peace of mind, control, and confidence with your money are worth more than any short-term financial gain.

